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Definition Separation Agreement - an agreement on support, child care and property covering the period before divorce but after separation.
Application in Divorce Same as Agreement.

Sometimes the term separation agreement describes an agreement or understanding between spouses who have separated but not yet moved toward divorce.

Sometimes the term is used in a more majoritive sense, depending upon practice and the jurisdiction, to mean the marital settlement agreement, property settlement agreement, marital agreement.

The phrase divorce agreement is normally not used because only a court can grant a divorce.

Normally, the agreement is incorporated in the final decree or judgment granting the divorce.

The agreement describes the terms and conditions for ending a marriage, and it deals with spousal and child support, insurance (health, life and disability), the family house and other real estate, cars, household items, stocks, bonds and mutual funds, bank accounts, retirement plans and pensions, bank accounts, pets, frequent flier miles, stock options, name changes, all debt, tax payments, fees for lawyers and counselors, provisions for modification, dispute resolution and the designation of a state of jurisdiction.

Separation agreements are normally interpreted by the same rules contracts are interpreted, and when they are incorporated into a divorce decree, courts construe them as contracts, not judgments. When the meaning is clear, courts do not look outside the four corners of the agreement. Evidence outside the four corners, which is called extrinsic or parol evidence, is generally not considered.

An agreement is unclear when its plain meaning cannot be understood: "An instrument is ambiguous when the language is reasonably susceptible to more than one meaning," as one court said. Moreover, an agreement may be clear but not complete.

The ideal separation agreement is clear and is complete.

See also Incorporation.

Questions & Answers
Is a separation agreement the same thing as a settlement agreement?
Strictly speaking, no. A separation agreement is created when a legal separation is in place. A settlement agreement is signed when the final decree of divorce has been ordered by court. However, since separation agreements are often incorporated into divorce decrees when the couple’s divorce is finalized, and since a separation agreement is often signed when a couple is separated and living apart in contemplation of divorce, many people refer to divorce agreements as separation agreements. Be aware that they are slightly different, but to many people, lawyers included, such terms are used interchangeably.
What is a separation agreement?
A separation agreement is a contract between a husband and a wife, signed when a legal separation has been granted or when they have agreed to live apart in contemplation of a divorce. The agreement is designed to settle any property, debt, alimony, child custody, visitation, insurance, tax, and child support issues that may lie between them. The above mentioned issues are the more significant and are often at the forefront of most agreements, but each agreement is unique and can address other issues like, who will care for the family pet, or what religion the child(ren) will practice. Most divorce lawyers will be able to provide a list of issues typically addressed in a separation agreement. During the negotiating process it is essential to keep an open mind in order to reach the actual settlement.
What does a separation agreement address?
A separation agreement attempts to put in writing what you and your spouse have agreed upon in your negotiations leading up to your separation or divorce. It can cover, but is not limited to the following; property, debt, pensions, alimony, child custody, visitation, insurance, tax filing, and child support issues.
Why should we use a separation agreement? Do we have to?
No, technically, you don’t have to, but if you don’t, the judge will have to hold a hearing relative to your issues (property, debt, alimony, child support. child custody, visitation, insurance, tax and etc.). This can be long, involved, and time-consuming. Judges actually prefer that couples enter a valid separation agreement. If you do not have a separation agreement, it will make the judge do more work that he or she may feel is your responsibility rather than the court’s. If you do have a separation agreement, it will also show the court that you are prepared and are knowledgeable about the issues at hand. A judge may think…”If you do not have a separation agreement or have not attempted to negotiate...how much do you really want the separation?”

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