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Definition Absent Parent - the parent (either the father or the mother) who is physically absent from the home.
Application in Divorce The parent who does not have custody of the minor child but who is responsible to assist in support of the child is usually called the noncustodial parent.

An absent parent is also referred to as the "estranged parent." Absent is a much more appealing name, which is why it has been adopted over the past decade. Even though many non-custodial parents are not "absent" from a child’s life, it have become an easier way for divorce professionals and courts to distinguish between the two parents in a written and verbal context. The absent parent is not necessarily the noncustodial parent because when the non-custodial parent has parenting time (visitation) with the child, the custodial parent becomes the absent parent. In cases where joint or shared physical custody is in place, both parents share equally the "absent" or "estranged" parent description.

Questions & Answers
Helpful Tips & Facts
  1. What Children Worry About
    In a divorce or separation, the main concern of children is, "What’s going to happen to me?". It is very important to address these concerns as soon as possible.
Additional Resources
Absent Parent Returns, Active Parent in Turmoil
After parental separation, a consistent relationship between child and both parents is best. A parent entering and leaving a child’s life can be disruptive for the child and for the life of the other parent.
Absent Parents And Left Behind Kids
Explaining the absent parent is never easy, but it is necessary. For children, their primary fear is of abandonment and loss of parental love. There may be a number of reasons that the family is no longer intact, if it ever was, but the child is looking for reassurance that it is not their fault and that they will be cared for.
Child Visitation Interference in Divorce
Divorce related child visitation interference is a national problem, affecting six million children. Such interference may be acute or may represent chronic disorders, such as Parental Alienation Syndrome and Divorce Related Malicious Mother Syndrome. In certain cases, visitation interference is accompanied by vicious behaviors toward the noncustodial parent, including violence and violations of law.
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