I just filed for dissolution of marriage in Arizona. I can't get the final decree for 61 days, which would be Nov. 16. However, my soon to be ex will be leaving Nov. 8 for basic training for the National Guard. Can the decree still be finalized or do I have to wait until he returns for Christmas?

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